At this point in my life, the most meaningful goal I want to achieve is to build a purposeful life rooted in faith, family, and service — a life that reflects who I truly am, honours those who shaped me, and leaves behind a legacy that inspires others to live with love and authenticity. It isn’t just about reaching a milestone or ticking off a checklist. For me, it’s about aligning my daily actions, my work, and my relationships with the deeper meaning I’ve come to understand through faith, loss, and love.
Over the years, I’ve achieved many things that once felt like dreams — publishing books, starting ventures, raising a beautiful family, and finding joy in creative pursuits. Yet, beneath the surface of accomplishments lies a quiet longing: to create something that truly matters. The kind of meaning that outlives you. I’ve learned that success without peace feels hollow, but even the simplest life lived with purpose can feel extraordinary.
After everything I’ve been through — the joy, the grief, the growth — my heart keeps returning to one thing: I want to live my faith more fully and let it guide everything I do. Reconnecting with my Catholic faith has been the most transformative experience of recent years. It brought back a sense of stillness I hadn’t felt in a long time. For too long, I let the noise of the world drown out that inner voice that reminded me of who I was meant to be. Now, when I sit in church and listen to the readings, I no longer just hear them — I understand them. I reflect on how they apply to my life, to my choices, and to the kind of person I want to become.
That’s why one part of this meaningful goal is spiritual — I want to grow closer to God, to be someone who lives with kindness, patience, and grace. It’s not easy; it’s a daily effort. But I believe it’s in these quiet, intentional choices that we build a meaningful life. Whether it’s beginning the day in quiet reflection with a cup of tea, spending time in prayer before the day unfolds, or simply showing love to those around me — these moments may seem small, but together, they form the foundation of a life with purpose.
Another part of my goal is deeply personal — it’s about honouring the people who shaped me. I’ve lost some of the most important people in my life. Each loss carved a space in my heart, but it also reminded me of the kind of love and goodness I want to carry forward. They were people who believed in me when I doubted myself. People who saw my worth even when I couldn’t. They were proud of me not for what I did, but for who I was. That kind of love changes you. It makes you want to live better — not just for yourself, but for them too.
So part of my goal is to keep the memory of those I’ve lost alive through what I do. Every time I help someone, give back to the community, or share something that uplifts others, I feel as though they’re still with me. When I donate blood, I’m reminded of the selflessness and dedication they embodied. When I encourage someone who’s struggling with faith, I think of the peace and strength they would have wanted me to find. And when I pour love into my work or into my children, I’m guided by the quiet belief in family and goodness that they instilled in me. In this way, I feel that my life continues their story — not through grand gestures, but through the way I live each day.
Family, too, lies at the heart of my goal. My mum has always been my best friend — loving, supportive, and proud of me in every season of my life. I want to make her proud not just through achievements, but by living a life that reflects the values she taught me: resilience, compassion, and faith. My dad, in his quiet yet steadfast way, has been a pillar of strength and wisdom, always reminding me that true success is measured not by what we gain, but by what we give. His guidance continues to shape how I approach challenges — with humility, patience, and an open heart. Watching my children grow into kind, capable young adults has also deepened my sense of purpose. My daughter Lani’s creativity and strength, my son Logan’s curiosity and determination — they remind me every day that the most important legacy we can leave isn’t in things, but in people. My goal now is to continue being that guiding light for them, helping them find their own paths, but always rooted in love and integrity.
Another dimension of this goal is service — using what I’ve learned and created to uplift others. Through my books, like Echoes of Faith and my juicing trilogy, I’ve seen how words can touch lives. What started as a passion project turned into something much greater — an opportunity to inspire others to live healthier, more mindful lives, both physically and spiritually. Now, I want to take that further: to create more content and initiatives that genuinely make a difference. Whether it’s through my business ventures, faith-based projects, or social media platforms, I want to keep spreading light — to remind people that even in hardship, there’s hope.
But building a meaningful life doesn’t happen overnight. It takes discipline, humility, and the willingness to evolve. I’m learning that it’s not just about chasing big dreams; it’s also about cultivating small, steady habits that align with those dreams. Waking up early, staying grounded in gratitude, taking care of my health, spending time in reflection — these are not just routines, but quiet acts of commitment toward the life I envision.
I also know that living meaningfully requires courage — the courage to let go of what no longer serves me, to forgive where I’ve been hurt, and to open my heart again to new beginnings. Life has shown me that pain and peace can coexist. The losses I’ve endured have made me more compassionate, more present, and more aware of what truly matters. So when I speak about wanting to build a purposeful life, it isn’t just an abstract ideal. It’s a choice to turn pain into purpose, to love deeply, and to give generously.
Ultimately, the most meaningful goal I want to achieve right now is not something I can measure in numbers or milestones. It’s about becoming — becoming someone who lives in alignment with her faith, who honours the love and lessons of those who came before, who uplifts others, and who finds joy in simplicity. It’s about creating a life that feels whole, not perfect; a life that reflects gratitude more than ambition, peace more than pride.
And perhaps most importantly, it’s about living in such a way that when my children, or anyone who crosses my path, look at my life, they don’t just see achievements — they see love, faith, and purpose. They see that even in moments of loss or uncertainty, I kept choosing hope.
That, to me, is the most meaningful goal of all.
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