I hesitated to write this during the Fourth of July festivities out of respect for my fellow American friends and family. However, it’s time to share my evolving perspective on this holiday. When we moved back to Singapore almost 19 years ago, I held onto American traditions, celebrating everything we used to in the USA, including the Fourth of July. It was important to me that my children didn't miss out on their roots. We proudly celebrated every year in our own way, keeping the spirit of American independence alive in our household.
However, I no longer feel the same pride in America. The celebrations now feel hollow in light of current events and the state of the country. The ideals we once celebrated seem to be in stark contrast to the reality many Americans face today.
One of the main reasons for my disillusionment is the treatment of veterans. These are individuals who fought for the very freedom we celebrate on the Fourth of July, yet they are not being taken care of as they should be. In my ten years working in real estate rentals, I’ve seen firsthand how many veterans struggle. They fought for our freedom, but it often seems like everything is reversed now, with those who should be honored and supported instead being neglected and forgotten.
In addition to the plight of veterans, I am deeply troubled by the epidemic of gun violence, particularly the tragic shootings of innocent children in schools. Schools should be safe havens, yet they have become sites of unimaginable horror. Despite the urgency of this crisis, meaningful gun control legislation remains elusive due to the entrenchment of the Second Amendment and powerful lobbying groups.
I could list many other reasons for my disappointment with America, but it’s essential to also acknowledge the opportunities I had while living there. My 11 years in the USA helped me grow as a person and become more independent. I experienced much more than many of my fellow Singaporeans who never had the opportunity to live overseas. For that, I am grateful.
However, this does not negate the frustrations I feel about America's current state. For instance, our tax money often goes to support individuals who contribute little to society, while veterans are denied much-needed assistance. Moreover, as long as we hold US citizenship or a green card, we are required to pay taxes to both the USA and the country we live and work in, which can be financially burdensome.
The situation has become even more complicated now that my children have chosen to be Singaporean citizens. Singapore does not allow dual citizenship, so they have decided to give up their American citizenship. The process has been anything but straightforward. The American embassy requires an exorbitant fee of USD $3,000 to renounce citizenship, a figure that was increased from USD $400 under Obama’s administration. This fee feels like a desperate attempt to retain citizens for tax purposes and leaves a bitter taste in our mouths.
I am unhappy about paying a total of USD $6,000 for my kids to renounce their American citizenship, but I will be relieved when it’s over. If America is so financially desperate that it needs to charge such high fees, then so be it. This experience has cemented my view that there’s nothing great about the once-great America.
My heart goes out to family and friends who are unhappy living in the USA but have no other choice. We are fortunate to have an alternative, and what an awesome alternative it is: Singapore. Here, we feel safe, supported, and part of a community that values and protects its citizens.
In conclusion, the Fourth of July has transformed from a day of joyous celebration to a time of reflection and disillusionment for me. The disparities between the ideals of freedom, justice, and equality and the current realities in America have led to a profound shift in my perspective. While I cherish the growth and experiences I gained during my years in the USA, I cannot ignore the systemic issues that have tarnished my view of the country. As I move forward, I do so with a heavy heart for those still grappling with these challenges and a deep appreciation for the life we have built in Singapore.
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